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Week 19 & 20 in room 1501 at Joy Christian High School were a wrapping up of the entire first semester of the 2014-2015 school year. (Weeks 21 & 22 were Christmas break)
Week 19 & 20 were a couple of weeks of tidying up Bible Class Notebooks that would serve as the final grade of this first semester of Bible Class. There were a couple of Zeros I had to give as a final grade. The Notebooks worthy of being graded actually received a grade as low as 12 out of 100 and some received a 100! It is quite an experience grading final work. It shows how much the student cares and for some it simply shows that the student has brilliant strategy. Strategic students know the educational system. They know they want to pass the class, get the grade and move on. Some of the students are doing so incredibly well in the class, that to even take a zero on the notebook, doesn’t drop their grade even a letter grade. So…a few skipped the notebook and got a zero.
Now, to the rule follower adults reading this, who are shaking your head or even possibly feeling disgusted by this type of student behavior…This strategy actually made me smile. As a teacher, I gave these students a zero on their final grade and moved on. I can’t take it personal. Some of these students who strategically took a zero learned a principle I taught in the first two weeks of Bible Class. They learned about what I call our Personal Hermeneutic. If you want to know what these 6 levels of Hermeneutic are all about, you can read about it in full detail here… Week 6 of this blog series of “Having Done in Room 1501”, titled (Spirit Week). Simply click here.
These few students took ownership in their decision and knew that they could still get an A or even a B by taking a zero on the final project/test of this first semester. If you read the levels of Hermeneutic, these students did not live in fear of being punished (Avoider), they are not living to please(Pleaser) their teacher or even their parents. They are not living for some worldly reward (Seeker). They simply worked hard all semester and knew they had created enough of what I call “grace space” that they could relax/sluff-off and be fine with the final result.
I personally think these students can be the ones who end up being the leaders of our future, because they know how to move forward in life successfully without pleasing everybody around them. Some of the greatest world changers became what they are because they knew how to strategically break the rules, think outside of the box, generate change, and not be held back by fear of what other’s think.
Please know…I love the students who did the final project perfectly and accomplished an amazing Bible Notebook that is in perfect order. These students too, can have great success, and their work ethic of near perfection, shows it. The principle I’m trying to point out, is that both example students mentioned above are right. Just different. I would bet a lot of money (and I’m not a betting man) that the student who understands the strategy of being able to get away with a zero and still get the grade has more potential at becoming a world changer and leader. Why? Usually the person who is in pursuit of the perfect grade, and doing everything by the exact rules laid before them…is someone who is not willing to break outside the box and break a few rules to accomplish something. Again…this is not about right or wrong. It’s about style and strategy.
Martin Luther King Jr. had to break a few rules to make change.
Nelson Mandela had to break a few rules to make change.
Benjamin Franklin had to take some huge risks to bring us some incredible inventions.
Michael Jordan failed at the freshman high school basketball tryouts and was cut from the team.
Isaac Newton was told by his teacher that he would never amount to anything.
Beethoven was told to he would never be successful in the music world.
You get the point.
After all…what is school really about? Is about getting the best grade? Getting an A? Is it about doing everything the teacher asks or requires? No. It is about the student becoming prepared to be successful in life. Some of life’s greatest successes happen when we live motivated by our passion and not our fear.
Are the majority of your decisions you make in life motived out of fear or pursuit of your passion?
I believe your best decisions in life are not the ones that make a lot of sense to other people…even your friends or family. I think the best decisions in life are made through the understanding of how God made you, what He made you passionate about, and then pursuing those passions through the risk necessary to do what God asks of you. It’s different for everybody.
The longer I am in the educational and academic system the more I am recognizing that Academia would prefer you to be a robot just like the robot sitting next to you in your class…just like the robots sitting in the Academic Chairs of Authority….so tests are created to make sure you are answering the right robotic questions to make sure you are the robot you should be….measuring all the robots in the industrial robot production lines to other robots.
I’m afraid the average school system is too much like the original line of Henry Ford’s industrial age, assembly line production, of the first car he produced. These cars came off the assembly line with only one color to choose from, all exactly the same. It was a great victory for the American way to build a profitable business. My problem is that it seems that America is stuck in the past of thinking this is still the best process to create success today. This might be true in the production of material goods, but not in any people business.
I believe our current culture is stuck in the cul-de-sac of the Assembly line age. Those who are of age to have been influenced by the Industrial age of Assembly lines, are still in leadership of American businesses and are wrestling with the younger generation who have been raised under the influenced of the World Wide Web. There is a giant traffic jam currently stuck in this Cul De Sac. It is going to take time and lots of frustration before the traffic takes a U Turn and leaves the Cul de Sac.
Let’s take a moment and think in more detail about what I’m trying to say. What does Henry Ford and the world of academia have to do with each other?
I do not think Henry Ford’s greatest invention was the Model T car. In fact Henry Ford didn’t invent the car. He invented the Model T version of a car. But, I do not think Henry Ford’s greatest influence upon our world came from the Model T…it came from the invention of the Assembly line. Henry Ford discovered the ability to produce an affordable car through the assembly line that increased the efficiency of manufacture and decreased its cost. Ford did not conceive the concept, he perfected it. Prior to the introduction of the assembly line, cars were individually crafted by teams of skilled workmen – a slow and expensive procedure. The assembly line reversed the process of automobile manufacture. Instead of workers going to the car, the car came to the worker who performed the same task of assembly over and over again. With the introduction and perfection of the process, Ford was able to reduce the assembly time of a Model T from twelve and a half hours to less than six hours.
Henry Ford is an inspiration to the USA. He is a hero to capitalism. Henry Ford’s style influenced millions of Americans to think differently about production and success. I think Henry Ford and the other’s who were inspired to copy his style of business might have influenced our American Education System.
Have we created an education assembly line, that maneuvers individual souls down conveyor belts, to Education Assemblers who aim to manufacture products of same-ness?
It is an honest and fair question. I think the answer is, yes. And, I think this style has crept into our Churches, Hospitals, HOA’s, Sports world, and many other people circles.
This is why I personally am thrilled to see students jump off the “assembly line”…okay with getting a zero… to live strategically towards their passions, not afraid of the wrath of the Assembly line workers.
I am convinced… greater purpose and fulfillment is achieved through living in your passions and not your fears. I am also convinced that those who live in their fears will someday arrive at death’s door very safe. It is terrifying to step out, challenge, and/or ignore the assembly line workers, and live for your passions…but those who push through the terror of stepping out…will be the ones who change something in this world.
Some with a strong Bible understanding, might say that fear can be good, and also might quote the incredibly wise Bible verse of Proverbs 9:10,
“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.”
I agree that there is a great purpose in Fear. Please understand when I celebrate the person who strategically ignores a few rules, that I am not talking about anything that has to do with sin. When I say I love the person who follows their passion…I am not referring, for even a second, that I celebrate unholy living of any kind. That is not success. Some fear is necessary. The fear of putting your hand on a burning stove. The fear of being too close to the unguarded edge of the Grand Canyon. The fear of head on collisions in automobiles. The fear of breaking the heart and will of God.
That’s good fear.
That Bible verse, above…it says the BEGINNING OF WISDOM. I don’t just want wisdom’s beginning. I want it’s middle and end. I want its fullness. We must have some motivation based from fear. I’m simply saying we must be very wise in WHO we fear. I have a serious problem with the RULER Hermeneutic (Clink link and go to Ruler Definition section of that blog). This type of person believes that if you break their rules, you dishonor God. This type of person would really have struggled with Jesus in how He confronted the Pharisee’s of His time. My goodness…Jesus was a rule breaker. He followed His Passion…To honor ONLY the Will of His Father…at the ignoring of many authority’s rules.
And He was successful. It didn’t make a lot of sense to the people around Him. Even those very close to Him…who spent years with Him. Jesus was so misunderstood because He followed His God given passion. I wouldn’t say that Jesus ignored His fears…He instead had great courage and trust in His Holy Father that overruled his fear.
It’s not wrong to be afraid. It’s wrong to listen to your fear at the demise of the Passion that God you to accomplish something for Him.
2015 is Here…ANOTHER YEAR IS ABOUT TO BLAZE BY….What fears are holding you back from living in the Purpose(s) that God is calling you to live for?
What do you fear? Is it possible that the Devil has instilled some fear in you to try to keep you from doing what God would have you do and be?
I challenge you to really break down your fears by thinking about what it is you truly fear. When you write down a few things you fear…then…ask yourself Why you fear it. When you think of the answer…write that down too. Then ask yourself Why again. Do this process about 5 or 6 times and I think you will get to the root of what you truly fear.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of all Wisdom. I challenge you to live in complete wisdom…not just in wisdom’s beginning. Complete wisdom will be found by filtering through all the voices in your life and in your head and only listening to the Voice of God. Listen to only God’s voice. WARNING NOTE: God’s voice will never tell you to do something that isn’t already founded in the Bible. Or, as I like to say it…
GOD’S WILL will never go against GOD’S WORD.
Living for GOD’S Will through God’s Word…will cause you to live as an individual designed by God as an individual, who will stand before God individually to give an account of everything you did. Don’t be a robot. God created you as an individual. If you live in the USA, then you also live in a country that is founded on individuality, filled with truths to be self evident. You are created to be free. Live in the Freedom of how God created you to live and follow His guidelines (Bible) of true freedom. It’s the difference of living for your fears or for your passions.
Happy New Year.
Bring it!
Dec 9, 2014 |
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Room 1501 is preparing to close down for the semester. I cannot believe how fast it has gone by. It seems like only yesterday that I walked into Room 1501 and met it’s students for the first time. This past week…inside Room 1501…has been pretty uneventful as we wrap up a great semester. My “having done in Room 1501” and lessons learned, came once again, outside of my room. I hope you enjoy the rest of this read…
I didn’t take the time to look up who originally said it, but it has been said… “YOU CAN’T REALLY UNDERSTAND ANOTHER PERSON’S EXPERIENCE UNTIL YOU’VE WALKED A MILE IN THEIR SHOES.”
I personally think that every American should have to do a job swap for a two week period, once a year. The entire USA workforce should have to do this. For example…I think every American should have to be a teacher for 2 weeks. It would be transformational. On the TV show called Family Feud, 100 people were asked to rate between a 1 and 10 if they felt they could do their boss’s job better than he/she could. A majority of the people polled answered with a 10. Meaning…nearly everybody thinks they can do their boss’s job better.
Not only am I professionally teaching for the first time ever, I am also taking on Basketball coaching for the first time ever. I have always played basketball, and I like to think I was pretty good at it. It’s been 18 years since I played basketball for Manhattan Christian College, where I earned the National Bible College Athletic Association Division I All American Award. Since then I have been in the stands cheering on my kids and yelling at referees and thinking ridiculous thoughts about the coach’s abilities, decisions, and plays. I have been a critic. I have thought many times that I would be a way better coach than “that guy coaching that team.”
And…now I’m coaching. I’m walking in a coach’s shoes…for more than a mile! Already…just the other day…as I’m sitting on the bench and the team is out warming up for the game about to start… I had a parent walk up behind me and say, “That is not a very intimidating warm up routine for our basketball team.” Frankly…it ticked me off. Then I remembered how critical I could be from the stands. It actually made me laugh. I deserved this comment from the parent. “What goes around, comes around.” But…here’s the truth…
It is so easy to be a critic.
It is so easy to watch the slow motion replay for your favorite NFL team and yell at the coach about how stupid that play call was, or how the running back should have cut right, not left.
It is so easy to criticize the Sunday preacher for his misquote of a passage.
It is so easy to think you can do it better.
I really wish…now that I’m a coach and a teacher…when I was being critical…that someone would have had the courage to say, “Shut up Renner…if you think you can do it better, then get your butt out there and do it.”
I love the quote from Theodore Roosevelt about Critics… 
“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”
You and I need to fully acknowledge that ^T.R.^ was right and still is right.
What have you been criticizing? Here’s my advice to you. It is spoken with loving boldness…
“Shut thy mouth!” 🙂 “Being a critic is easy. If you think you can do it better, then get out there and go for it.”
I love the example of Jesus. When we…His prized creation…messed up and sinned…He didn’t complain and criticize. He took on our skin. He became one of us. He didn’t just walk a mile in our shoes, He put on our shoes and wore them for 33 years….and He did it perfectly. He put on our shoes and wore them way better than we ever could. And still, He is not a critic. He is love.
I pray we will not criticize others………ever again. That will be difficult, but possible.
What good does criticism do? Does it accomplish anything…I mean…other than make us look like a jerk?
Let’s end with a great Bible passage to put us all in our place and direct us to become the kind of people we really want to be.
“3 Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. 4 Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.
5 You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.
6 Though he was God,
he did not think of equality with God
as something to cling to.
7 Instead, he gave up his divine privileges;
he took the humble position of a slave
and was born as a human being.
When he appeared in human form,
8 he humbled himself in obedience to God
and died a criminal’s death on a cross.”
Philippians 2:3-8
My first semester as a teacher, and now, as a coach at Joy Christian School has taught me a lot. I can now say, after walking a mile in the shoes of a teacher and coach, how arrogant I must have sounded when I criticized the teachers and coaches of my past. Oh…I didn’t criticize so much publicly to other people, but for sure God heard it. I wonder what my words and heart made Him think?
I will try to do all I can to zip my lips when they try to get critical. It will be a challenge.
If, after reading this post, you have been convicted about being critical towards anybody or any profession, I hope you will have the courage to at least volunteer in that area and see for yourself that it is not as easy as you think.
It will be an adventure that will humble you and make you a better person.
Thanks for reading this…I’m honored by you taking the time to do so, and for not criticizing this blog post. 🙂
Trent
Nov 28, 2014 |
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THIS POST HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE FERGUSON RIOTS! LOL
I am at the end of my 17th week of being a first time professional teacher. I’ve been on Thanksgiving break all week…which is officially week 17. I haven’t blogged on week 16 until now…well…because I’ve been on T-Giving break!
Last week, as we closed down our 16th week to get ready for this great break I’ve been on, we had an all School Thanksgiving Chapel service. The chapel service is how Friday ended. We were done by 10:30 AM that Friday and everybody was so excited to get off campus and begin our full 9 day break!!
Before I talk about what I learned from the All School Chapel Service, I simply want to say, it is a true challenge to try to teach the Students of Room 1501 the entire week, when they know they have a full 9 days of break coming up. ADD, ADHD, SPASTIC KIDS, TROUBLE MAKERS & RULE BREAKERS come out of the cracks and push any adult irritation button they can find. 🙂
I didn’t mind. I was one of those students too. In fact, I’m going to guess that you have trouble focusing at work when you know a big vacation is coming up. So, I planned for it. I prepared for the week to be of a lighter subject in Room 1501. It made for a good week. “If you can’t beat em…join em!” And when I say “beat em”…I mean it in all senses. LOL
On Friday, this Chapel service was really great. See Pic. 
We sang songs, watched video footage of different people saying what they were thankful for. Played some silly games, prayed, listened to a great message from Pastor Patrick Youngs and then we ran for the parking lot to begin our Thanksgiving Vacation.
I was reminded of something at this chapel service. Again, it was an all School Chapel Day. This means that ALL students K-12 were in attendance. As the chapel service progressed, there was great excitement coming from the 4th Grade and below age groups. When the speaker asked for a response, this age group complied enthusiastically. When the worship leader was leading us in song, this same age group sang at the top of their lungs! They laughed out loud when things were funny. They were fully engaged.
I think this age group is special. I wish this age group’s carefree and uninhibited demeanor is how we all behaved for the rest of our lives. I think this type of Child is what Jesus meant when He said, “17 I tell you the truth, anyone who doesn’t receive the Kingdom of God like a child will never enter it.” Luke 18:17 NLT
These kids were inspiring to watch and listen to. They were fully engaged and they obviously didn’t care about the High School and Middle School Age Group’s potential of making fun of them for such “silly behavior.”
I think you know what I mean. These young kids would do about anything. They have great courage and are unrestrained. Some of the sophisticated types might call them, undignified.
That word, undignified, is found in a great Bible story of King David…He came dancing into town in front of the Ark of the Covenant after a great battle. His wife saw him and didn’t just roll her eyes but scolded him for such undignified behavior that was not befitting of a king. I love King David’s reply….In fact…here is the story… It is found in 2 Samuel 6:16-21
16 But as the Ark of the Lord entered the City of David, Michal, the daughter of Saul, looked down from her window. When she saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord, she was filled with contempt for him.17 They brought the Ark of the Lord and set it in its place inside the special tent David had prepared for it. And David sacrificed burnt offerings and peace offerings to the Lord. 18 When he had finished his sacrifices, David blessed the people in the name of the Lord of Heaven’s Armies. 19 Then he gave to every Israelite man and woman in the crowd a loaf of bread, a cake of dates, and a cake of raisins. Then all the people returned to their homes.20 When David returned home to bless his own family, Michal, the daughter of Saul, came out to meet him. She said in disgust, “How distinguished the king of Israel looked today, shamelessly exposing himself to the servant girls like any vulgar person might do!”21 David retorted to Michal, “I was dancing before the Lord, who chose me above your father and all his family! He appointed me as the leader of Israel, the people of the Lord, so I celebrate before the Lord.22 I will become even more undignified than this, and I will be humiliated in my own eyes. But by these slave girls you spoke of, I will be held in honor.”
When was the last time you were undignified in an honorable child-like pure way?
When was the last time you rolled down the windows of your car and sang the song on the radio as loud as you could?
When was the last time you struck up a conversation with a total stranger?
When was the last time you made a mud pie or played in the dirt?
Run through a sprinkler?
When was the last time you giggled so hard, your stomach hurt?
Built a sand castle?
Play with play-dough?
Build a fort using only blankets and couch cushions?
Finger paint using only pudding?
Jump on a trampoline?
Watching the young kids at the All School Thanksgiving Chapel reminded me of how cool it is to be a kid. Something happens in us when we “grow up”. I’m not sure its a good thing. In another passage of scripture Jesus said, “”Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” Matthew 18:3 NIV
If I were Jesus I would have had the Apostle Paul add another Spiritual Gift to the lists found in 1 Corinthians 12 and Romans 12 … I would have had Paul add… “The Spiritual Gift of Immaturity.”
I have this gift. Just ask the students in Room 1501. I say things that the average Bible Teacher doesn’t say. I say things the typical preacher doesn’t say. It has gotten me in trouble with the people I like to call, “Old Grumpy Pants!” It will continue to get me in trouble. I’m really okay with that fact.
Life is so short.
We all need to lighten up.
Go get the crayons out. Color a picture. Color outside the lines. Then…bring it to me or send it with your student.
I’ll tac it on the wall of Room 1501. 
It’ll inspire others to be child like.
It will brighten someone’s day.
It will give me a story to tell.
I’ll bet God will use it to change a life.
Trent
Nov 16, 2014 |
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I just wrapped up week 15 at Joy Christian High School as a first year teacher. I teach the Bible Class to Sophomores, Juniors and Seniors. Sophomores are going through New Testament Survey and the others are going through World Religions. It’s still pretty amazing to me that I get all those students in Room 1501 every week and we get to learn The Bible and it’s impact on life. I pray it plants seeds that God continues to grow for the rest of their lives.
It is a true honor to witness the students of JCHS entering into that blue door each day. A majority of them wear their emotions on their sleeves. It is pretty evident what kind of day each student is having just by reading their body language when they enter. I can tell that the semester is getting ready to end, because many of the students are weary of school. They are in need of an extended break. There is nothing wrong with that. Thanksgiving and Christmas are right around the corner.
Week 15 at JCHS, taught me its most valuable life lessons, outside of the classroom. This week the JCHS Volleyball and Football teams had their season ending State Playoff games. Both teams had a phenomenal season as they demonstrated their athletic gifts God gave them. But, each team, even with their overall successful season, ended the season heartbroken because they didn’t progress and have an ending result of ‘State-Champs.’ In their minds they didn’t win. In reality they didn’t win. As the Room 1501 Bible Teacher, I found myself heart broken for them. This week’s experience reminded me of something that our American culture seems to be embarrassed of.
Admitting that WINNING IS EVERYTHING.
Stop and think about it for just a moment. If you disagree with that statement…then…when did you stop believing that winning is everything?
Harry “Red” Sanders, head coach of the of UCLA Bruins from 1949-1957 is the one who get’s the credit for that phrase. Vince Lombardi is known for using that phrase as he led the Green Bay Packers to be a winning dynasty that still inspires people today.
Harry Sanders’s exact quote is, “Winning isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.” Lombardi gives Sanders the credit for being the originator of the phrase in his book, “The Lombardi Rules.”
So, do you believe that winning is everything?
I think there is Biblical evidence that winning is everything. However, before we jump into the Bible let’s first start with the Dictionary.com.
WIN … verb (used without object), won, winning.
1. to finish first in a race, contest, or the like.
2. to succeed by striving or effort.
3. to gain the victory; overcome an adversary.
It is of my opinion that the current American culture…is meandering through life without any stimulating vision. Somewhere along these past 10-15 years, the American people have catered to some strange people who live on the fringes of society. Somehow these types have gotten into the leadership of too many things. Am I the only one who thinks we have given influence of the American Culture, to the kind of people who were not present when the “Common Sense Train” stopped to give out its gifts? I think these types have been influencing some very important USA things, and have been brilliant in their influence, to the point that the average, common sense gifted American, has become the frog in the kettle that is about to be cooked.
Have these types somehow slow-cooked you into thinking that winning is for greedy, mean-spirited, and self-ambitious people?
I say it again, Winning is everything.
Bible time…
The Apostle Paul, the writer who wrote more than half of the New Testament under the guidance of the Holy Spirit, wrote this…
“Don’t you realize that in a race everyone runs, but only one person gets the prize? So run to win!”
1 Corinthians 9:24
“So run to win.” The Bible says that! If you think with me, I think you will agree that there are 7 areas of life. All things life, fall into one of these 7 categories. 1. Spiritual 2. Social 3. Psychological 4. Parental 5. Physical 6. Financial 7. Marital.
In the 7 areas of life, can you think of one that would be okay to NOT win in? Do you want to lose in your marriage? Do you want to lose in your physical life? Do you want to lose in the Spiritual world?
I repeat, Winning is everything!
Part of the problem we might have with our current attitude towards winning is the simple fact that somewhere along the way we have been slow cooked into believing that winning is only about some position. No doubt…part of a win is actually a 1st place position. Surely you have heard the phrase “2nd place just means you are the first loser.” But I want to say, that if the attainment of your first place position was done with any form of integrity problem, then you may have won a 1st place position, but you did not win a first place function. (Please understand the difference between Functional and Positional winning.)
There are many things in life that carry attributes of what is called Functional and Positional differences. As an example, I’ll demonstrate what I mean by using one of my favorite topics, Spiritual Leadership. There are many people who hold the position of leadership in their Church, but it’s just a position. Somewhere in that church there is a person or a group of people who truly FUNCTION as the leadership. In Church world this is not healthy. In Church world, the average Church(an average church in the USA runs about 90 total in attendance) is struggling to produce any kind of fruit, because the Church might have a Pastor/Minister/Preacher that has a Position/title of leader, but in all reality, there is a group of about 5 -10 people/families that function as leaders and if you the positional leader do not do what they say…well…there will be heck to pay. Positional vs Functional Leadership. There is a distinct difference.
In life, it seems like all the power is in the Positional leadership…but eventually functional leadership will WIN out. FUNCTIONAL leadership trumps POSITIONAL leadership…sooner or later! It may take Jesus’s return and the initiating of eternity to set that point as fact…but it is fact, none the less.
This is why Jesus says, “The Last shall be first and the first shall be last.” According to Jesus, true winners may not hold the less important POSITION of leadership, but FUNCTION behind the scenes as a real functioning leader.
Position does not always define a win. A true win is accomplished when Position and Function bond as one. If you cheat to win, you don’t win…no matter the position you finished in. If you have positional power and you have to “show”your power to get what you think is a win…then you didn’t win at all. (In teaching world…there are teachers who think they win when they “nail” a student, but that teacher won the little skirmish at the loss of the entire battle. They lost the student’s respect…that’s not a win.) Positional leadership “sticks out its chest.” Functional leadership doesn’t need facades. Functional leadership is invisible power.
I think, part of the reason as to why America has developed a misunderstanding about winning, is simply because we have become a dumbed down society that is too busy to think deeply anymore. We do not think deeply about what a TRUE WIN really is because we don’t have the time to really study and learn deeply about things, due to our fast pursuit of what we think is a win. We have become a society of “the ends justifies the means.” Too many just want some end goal result and they will bypass almost anything to get to that first place position.
I have heard and experienced horror stories of churches, corporations, schools, and governments that will do anything to get a “win.”
Why?
Because…winning is everything.
It’s time we quit lying to ourselves about winning. Winning is everything. It really matters to every one of us. Winning matters so much that people will do anything to win.
But here is the deal…
If you win a first place POSITION by ignoring first place FUNCTION…then you are a loser…not a winner. If I have to cheat/lie or in any other way keep secret what I had to do to get the “win”…then in all reality I lose. If in no other arena…then when I look in the mirror. If I lost my integrity to get a win…my mirror will let me know. Below are just a few comparisons between Functional and Positional Leadership. Understanding the difference will help you truly win. The material below is written from a Biblical World-view perspective.
Bottom Line … Winning is everything. I can’t think of anything that I want to lose in. I suppose what is difficult to determine is what is truly a win. All the money in the world, all the fame, all the influence, all the positions of power, all the _____________????
Have you heard the following phrase? “He who dies with the most toys, wins.” I want to scream, “FALSE!” The true phrase is…
“He who dies with the most toys, still dies.”
You can erase the underlined word above and put in any earthly word in its place and it is still true.
I don’t want to lose in anything. I want to win.
Especially in the Spiritual realm. To lose spiritually is to go to Hell eternally.
To wrap up this blog post about what I have learned from Room 1501 on this 15th week at Joy Christian High School, I simply want to add what Jesus said about winning and losing.
“If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it.” Luke 9:23-24
Jesus didn’t come to be served…even though He deserved it. He came to serve others. Jesus didn’t come to win in this world…He came to die…a.k.a…”lose,” so that He could live eternally in the presence of His Heavenly Father. He “lost” so that you could win. Now…we are going to have to copy Him. What is it that you must “lose” in this life so that you may gain eternal life? What positional powers are you indulging in right now that you need to transform into Functional powers. What is it that you must die to, so that you can win? What must you lose…to truly win in what matters?
WIN!
The athletes that filed through Room 1501 this week helped me think about what true winning and losing really is. And no matter how you look at it…Winning is everything.
Don’t let anybody tell you any differently.